Time To Stand UP and be Heard

It's that time again (well, it was that time a while ago, but you know how it is....)

What's happening in my home......

In my kitchen....I bought myself a new tart pan for my birthday, and have been having fun making new things with it.  This one is an Apple Tart with a Reduced Apple Glaze....this was YUMMY.  I've also done a Pear Tart with Raspberry Glaze.
I've been channeling Julia Child lately.  I want to make yummy beautiful things.
I have "Plan Thanksgiving Dinner" on my lists of things to do, and am so busy, that I've been putting it off.  I've got to get to it soon! That being said, I've cleared almost everything off my ONE workspace in the kitchen...nothing has a permanent home there anymore and I LOVE that. Makes my kitchen feel cleaner than it did before.  Not that it IS clean....still working on that part....

In my marriage......
Lightbulb moments all over the place in the last couple of weeks.  The biggest one is that Loving someone doesn't have ANYTHING to do with whether or how they love you back.  This has been an important concept for me :) And it's something that I have to remind myself of every day. And that things that are difficult for us, often provide us with an opportunity for growth.
Speaking of Mario, he's enjoying his new job...he really feels valued and that's important.

With the Children.....

Sophia tried out and was invited to be on Club Utah's Elite Volleyball Team (they've been to Junior Olympics the last two years, so it's a great, if not expensive, opportunity).  We made lists of things for family home evening this week.  One side was things we might like for Christmas, the other side was a LONGER list of things we were thankful for.  She listed that she was thankful for young women leaders who kept bugging her to do what she KNEW she was supposed to do....I was shocked....and so impressed with her list....she could have listed so MANY things, but she chose that.

Alanna has been sick alot this past month.  Mostly headaches, which seem to stem from separation anxiety.  She feels that "six hours and fifteen minutes" is too long for her to be away from me.
We had tons of fun  making and decorating our traditional Halloween cookies....Alanna likes to get VERY involved in her work, and was covered from head to toe by the time we finished.

 Isabelle said to me the other day, "Mom, when I grow up will  you tell me all the secrets?"  I replied, "sure, Isa.....what secrets are those?" To which she said, "You know, all the secrets about how to be a good mom."  Wow, did that make me feel good...she obviously thinks I know them, LOL.  She helped make Apple Muffins the other day, and asked me yesterday how to sew on a button...which I showed her....since she was little she's talked about being a mom, and I think she'll be a great mom and homemaker.  Unlike her mom who is a SHE (side-tracked home executive), Isa is BO (born organized)..  She'll be awesome.

Ellie....She's gotten 100% on every spelling test she's taken so far this year.  I'm so pleased...and she's reading James and the Giant Peach.  It just thrills me that my kids are such fantastic readers...not that I can take any direct credit for it...it's not like I worked with them since they were little, but we do like to read. She is an interesting kid.  So independent, and at the same time, so attached at the hip.  She is doing AWESOME at her piano practicing. I think she's got a real ear for music.

I'm trying to do better at spending quality time with the little girls while the bigger ones are at school.  I decided to tell them a story about Noah..I thought "I think I can remember all the details."  So I commenced to tell them about how Heavenly Father told Noah to build a boat, and so Noah did, and then he put 2 of every animal on the boat..a boy and a girl...and then Heavenly Father told Noah to get his family on the boat and it started to rain.  And it rained for 40 days and 40 nights and Noah and his family were safe on the boat. And then one day it stopped.  And Noah sent a dove out several times until the bird brought back a tree branch, and Noah knew that they could leave the boat.  The End.  And Gabby turns to me and says, "Mom, you forgot about the Rainbow!" ......duh...

Sammie has been potty training...and when she does well, she turns to me and says, "Mom, you happy?" and I say "Yes, I'm happy!"  This started because at one point she wasn't even trying, and I said, "Sammie, when you don't go on the potty it makes me so SAD."  For the next week, she had almost NO accidents...and each time she went, she made sure that I was happy with her progress :)
As I'm posting this, she's saying..."Look, that's ME, in my beautiful costume," and flapping her "wings."

Around the homestead....
Still mucking out one things at a time.  It's slow going, (especially this week!...but more on that later), but I'm trying.  I'm making plans for a wonderful "Day after Thanksgiving"....we'll have a special breakfast, shop for our ornaments...our tradition is to let the kids pick out a new one each year....and decorate the tree.  This will all need to happen before the Family Photos scheduled for that afternoon, and the festivities planned afterwards with the extended fam.

My business.......
I am developing classes for Scrapbook Dimensions Magazine, and the first one begins on Monday....it's been a good opportunity to stretch and grow, and find new abilities. It's also been stressful.  I could have used more time to get it done, but my editor wanted it done yesterday, so I've been moving a LOT faster than I'm comfortable with, in addition to working alot more than I like to lately. But I'm excited about it.  If you want to see my intro, you can check it out HERE.



My Inner Man.....
I had the opportunity to attend "Time Out for Women" with my mom and some of my sisters.  What an enlightening and spiritual experience.  There were many tears as I listened to the presenters, and moments when we were rolling on the floor.  It was truly therapeutic and I learned so much about myself as a woman and Daughter of God.  Answers to things I'd struggled with for YEARS, with regards to my roll as a woman and Mom....I hope to get the chance to go again...it was life-changing, and hopefully I can maintain my momentum.